Lately two types of relationship are becoming very common, none of them healthy. Not to step on anybody’s toes, we are not talking about kinks here. Kinks are many and if it’s done with consent that no matter what games you play, it’s your and your partner business.
Now relationship number one – very unhealthy pattern of mommies and daddies.
It’s the social norm now – one of partners is mature one, the other is not. One partner takes all the responsibility, the other is a parasite sucking the life force out. Men are looking for an older woman, preferably with the kid already so he will not have to take responsibility even in that department. They bring money into the family, most of the time not that much, and am older woman takes care of them. She cleans, cooks, tells him what to do, the man becomes just another baby. He is looking for a replacement of his own mother and eventually loses the last of his independence. What kind of healthy relationship including sec can you have with a copy of your mother?
Practically same applies to daddies. Rich often powerful men, marry silly little girls who play the role of their daughter/doll for their amusement. They get the money out of it, but often not even that. They just don’t want to take responsibility for anything. Men in such relationship are forced to take care of everything – they drive the car, bring money in the family, do repairs and pay the bills. The woman cries a lot, has no opinion and has to resort to manipulations and subtle hints to get what she wants. A lot of young women think this is the best relationship ever – “I want to feel safe and protected with him”. There is no equality in this relationship and men often say that such type of wives are boring, they have nothing to talk about. Of course there is nothing to talk about – set shop toys also can’t have a conversation and this is what you are getting.
Relationship type number two is even worse in my opinion, it’s even more parasitic. There’s no love or any type of positive feeling in this one. Just one partner using the other for gain and “suffering” them until they got what they wanted or the money ran out. It’s basic marketing relationship – a buyer acquires a milking cow. When the cow ran out of milk or no longer needed, the cow is quickly discarded. The parasite in this relationship often uses brainwashing to attain their goals – they will tell everybody that their love is pure and strong when in reality there is no love at all. There will also be subtle comments to lower self-esteem of their partner. “You will never find someone as good as me to love you as strong as I do”.
In conclusion none of it is healthy, one is having Dec with your parent, the other is whoring yourself out. The only healthy relationship is when two partners have positive feelings towards each other, they both contribute in the relationship if not equally than close to it and they are not using each other.